I embody most qualities of an attractive man, but I don't get the same results as other guys who act the same as me.

Mindsink · 2015-12-27T05:16:13+00:00

Maxwell Malts, he wrote Psycho Cybernetics, he talks about the internal image that we create of ourselves. It is programmed through living, undergoing life experiences. The image that you program of yourself is what screams to the world around you. It is your scent. The scent that makes a woman decide in a flash of an instant how she wishes to interact with you. Learn to program this mental image of yourself into the man that attracts the types of women that you wish to attract and you will attract them.

Immersing yourself within new life experiences that allow you to subconsciously reprogram yourself usually does the trick. Facing your fears. Surprising yourself that you can do way more than you give yourself credit. Pushing yourself towards challenges and overcoming them. When you push through these mental blocks, self limiting beliefs. You begin to reshape the internal image that you hold of yourself. The world reflects upon your internal image.

BC of the steep learning curve, and the fact that everyone is helpless in their infancy stages of Brazilian Jiu Jitsu. I have found that it is a wonderful vehicle in helping you reshape your internal image. It truly does create a transformation. It is difficult and challenging physically and mentally. It takes you out of the general human comfort zone and redefines it. Therefor highly rewarding. It is the art of leverage, a mental exercise that is applicable in all walks of life. Including picking up women. There are other vehicles out there but I can only suggest those that I know from experience. Commit to 3 months of BJJ, 3-4 times a week, then note the shift, how life begins interacting with you a bit differently. Stick through it and note the shift after 6 months and so forth. If you want fast results you will immerse yourself into a new shocking to your senses environment. You want an environment that is constantly accessible. A repetitious cycle is necessary for best and long term results.

You are welcome to PM me about questions, finding a good BJJ gym in your area... /r/BJJ is a great community. GL

gazoontight · 2015-12-27T02:49:18+00:00

It sounds like you make a great first impression, but maybe it's because you think things like this post. Maybe it doesn't have anything to do with you. Personally, when someone bails on me I immediately think there's something wrong, but usually if I cool my jets there's a totally reasonable reason. Then again, maybe you aren't being genuine and are trying to hard, like you said. People pick up on that.

pacg · 2015-12-27T04:23:00+00:00

Tell us more. Give us a good example of what you're experiencing.

whatutterjapes · 2015-12-27T06:10:23+00:00

How much action are you taking? How often do you go out and how many sets do you approach?

recyclablebantha · 2015-12-27T09:10:04+00:00

I embody almost all "alpha" qualities. I act almost identical to the guys I model my game after (I am still congruent). However, the other guys get results and I don't.

Look, something is not lining up here. This isn't rocket science. If you truly embodied "most qualities of an attractive man," you would get results. Period.

Since you don't, then you're missing something. Probably something in your inner game. But you've been vague about too many things:

What constitutes "almost all alpha qualities?"
How do you measure such qualities and how do you know you really have them?
In what way are you "congruent?"
What results do you want? What "results" are "other guys" getting?

People, mostly girls, bail on me frequently.

Then you're not "alpha." Period. Something is left out of your analysis.

I am funny, laid back, interested in others, and independent, but I still can't make it work for me but other similar guys can.

Am I trying too hard? What could it be?

You probably are trying too hard if people are bailing. But it's hard to say because you only say that girls bailing, not ANYthing about how you got to that result.

How are you meeting these girls? How are you opening them? What are you saying and doing? How are they reacting?
How are the conversations going with these girls? How do you come up with whatever you talk to them about?
How do you number close? When and how do you decide this? How do you go about this?

Title	I embody most qualities of an attractive man, but I don't get the same results as other guys who act the same as me.
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Date	December 27, 2015 12:09 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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