There seems to be a very delicate balance between escalating and maintaining comfort. I'd say my physical escalation is generally ambitious, but I keep getting freaked out by posts like this which seem to suggest that if you don't seal the deal within the first few dates, the girl will just drop you like a sack of potatoes. In The Mystery Method, Mystery also writes that "the door almost never opens twice for the same bird*.

Tomorrow I have a second date with a girl who seemed to get a little uncomfortable with me being rather forward at the end of our first date (details here). I want to keep things going with her but based on the type of girl she seems like, I have a hard time envisioning her accepting an offer to go back to my place toward the end of a weekday date. What's the best course of action in a scenario like that?