How to Not Care What People Think - The Belief Shift To Live a Life Where You Are in Charge

CouragePope · 2016-01-15T00:41:04+00:00

Short to the point. I loved it.

Sedditor829 · 2016-01-15T00:59:34+00:00

I appreciate the content I think this is unhealthy thinking. You should definitely care what some others think. Not doing so IMO implies a level of unhealthy self-absorbtion. We're herd animals, and we respond well to things that please the crowd. Most people I know who truly come off as not caring at all what others think make me kind of nervous to be around TBH. The words, "socially uncalibrated" come to mind, or people completely void of trusting others.

It's totally fine to care what others think. The thing is you need to stay aware of whose opinion you're catering to. So many times I'll see guys start taking friends for granted while trying to impress a girl or something, pretending his friend doesn't even exist after he meets a girl. You have the right to do this but in my experience I get very emotional and stressed when I start caring too much about the opinions of girls (and guys) I barely know. On the other hand if I have a girlfriend you better believe I'm going to care about her opinion. I mean if you don't, then what's the point? It's fine to care, just realize it's probably better to care about people close to you who care back somewhat.

Maybe this is what you were trying to say but I just see a lot of guys who get this confused out there. Hell I see a lot of girls get this confused when you start talking to them for a while and they just start saying they like everything that you do.

Title	How to Not Care What People Think - The Belief Shift To Live a Life Where You Are in Charge
Author	steffbenji
Upvotes	45
Comments	5
Date	January 14, 2016 5:18 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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