So I really like myself. It took me a while, a long while, to say that, but it is true. I'm funny, I'm great with people, I'm smart, I'd even say I'm slightly above average looking. I don't care about what I don't have, I'm not fretting about my hair, or my height, or my dick size, or whatever. I'm comfortable with me.

Until I have to deal with rejection. Women just send me into a fuckin' tailspin man. I feel like it's because I generally don't seek approval, but with women I am, and so when I don't get it, it resets me to the me I used to be. Unsure, feeling worthless, feeling "less" than other people. It sucks man.

I know part of it is an abundance mentality mindset, because I get super hung up on this girl, but it extends to all interactions with women. I become needy, I place my self worth in their approval, which is something I never really do otherwise.

Does anyone know how to improve this mindset, any tips on changing my way of thinking? How can I, for all intents and purposes, just give less of a shit?