I've been posting about this in a few different topics, but anyway since I'm 99.9% certain it's over with now, I just need some closure on what went wrong or what happened. (No accusations of one-itis please, I hardly even care now, I think she's a bitch anyway and I just want to LEARN from what happened.)

A couple weeks ago I posted a profile on some site where I specified I was shy and autistic, and looking for other girls who might be that way, and also that I was not looking for anything serious--just to chill out and watch Netflix.

Got a reply from a local girl, we exchanged pics (she's average or slightly better), she said I was "very attractive," gives me her number, asks to start texting. The texting went okay.. the chemistry, however, was FAR worse than it was over email... I don't know what to say when things go to text. At some point I ask "when is a good time to talk?" She then says I can text at any time, and call any day after 5 o'clock. So I left that conversation feeling good.

But then after doing a lot of research, I read that it's good to stop contact for a few days so you look like you're busy and not too invested in her. That's what I did. Apparently the idea is to make them chase you, or wonder where you went in that time. I waited 3 days, but didn't hear anything back from her in that time. So, I finally started texting again. But her responses are much shorter and she takes longer to reply, it's almost as if she "changed" or suddenly got cold after the absence of communication.

The moment where bad went to worse--where I could tell I really fucked up--happened one night later. I asked if she was busy, she said she wasn't, then I text: "I'm thinking of calling you. What time works for you?" Got no reply to that, and days later, still nothing. Later on, I had guys here tell me "NEVER ask to call"

Ever since that time, she still replies to texts, but she never replies to ANYTHING that has to do with logistics. I tried calling, she did not pick up (texted later: "sorry i didnt pick up i was busy working").. I tried once texting: "when are you free next? like next week," and of course, no reply.

I just have to know... in you guys experience... which is it?

Option A: does this sound like someone who is just fooling around with internet guys, has a whole "fleet" of guys she says she's interested in texting her, just enjoys the attention and validation.. basically a manipulative bitch who is lying about everything.. probably never found me attractive, etc..

Or... Option B: I looked good and sounded good in email, she was interested for a little there, but then when it got to texting.. since I have NO idea what to do with texting.. I just continually destroyed her initial interest, by saying all the wrong things?

I need some kind of closure on this. I know it's pathetic.. but if anything, I can at least learn from it. So what went wrong?