Does anyone else have a lopsided skill set?

Bigjohnthug · 2016-01-20T02:15:09+00:00

Push harder with each girl. Getting less numbers will force you to do that. This is really common for beginners btw, I got like 300 numbers before I got laid 10 times. So thats 30 numbers a lay and half of the lays were ONSs to boot. So 60 numbers to one lay... lol.

Wanderjar · 2016-01-20T05:56:59+00:00

Usually its from a disconnect in one of the steps. I have that same problem, and it seems in the same place you do as well: texting. I don't seem to do well after the first few days, the girls either become bored or whatever.

Most recently I reconnected with a girl I knew from high school that I'd had a huge crush on. I fired up the charm big time and impressed her with my career and the like. Got her number and the first couple days was great, but then it just died out. I'm lucky to even get a response from her now, when before she'd initiate new conversations with me.

What I learned from the experience is that I do one of two things: I don't talk enough, or I talk too much. I tend towards the latter, which is probably worse than too little communication ultimately. I've read that ultimately texting should only be used as a means for setting up a date after the first couple days. For reasons I can't really get into this wasn't an option for me, but under normal circumstances that's how one should approach it. So talk to her heavily for two days, suggest a meet up and after that texts should be pointed and rare. If she texts, reply, and be sincere if you're enthusiastic, but let the conversation die. Over communication seems to be a killer.

This could be entirely wrong in some, or even most scenarios. This is purely something that I've come up with from my own experience. With that in mind, its entirely possible that I don't text well either. Regardless, hope that gives some meaningful or at least useful insight.

Title	Does anyone else have a lopsided skill set?
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Date	January 19, 2016 11:04 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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