so was going through tinder on a Monday till I got a match with one girl we'll call her Hera. I look through her profile & I try a new opening message I got here on one of the old tinder threads it went like this:

"Not into texting lets get some coffee"

She responded an 1 or 2 hours later saying she was going out with a coworker. I teased her saying "it was too late you lost your chance" but followed up with I'm free Wednesday & she obliged. Tuesday I ask for her number so I could set up the date I get it & tell her we're meeting up at Starbucks.

I don't really text her all that much just use it to set up the logistics. So the date happens I see her and shake her hand I buy us both coffee. I add some funny banter about how I'm kind of a girl when it comes to coffee I drink white chocolate mochas

We go to sit & I intentionally put my chair at a right angle to her so I'm in a better position for kino as the date goes on we talk about a wide variety of topics like music, sports school etc. while throwing in some light kino to emphasize my points. Didn't really make the convo that sexual. I made a couple of jokes when she said she didn't want to be a high school teacher being that she would fall for the students but nothing to outright. She presented me her hand when we were talking about deadlifts. I grabbed her hand pretending to know what palm reading was as a joke. But that really all that happened as far as kino is concerned

She then said she had to go here I was like "ok man now's your chance" as we stand up I say "wait" and go in for the kiss she thought I wanted a hug so she showed me her cheek but i gently moved her head to meet mine & we kissed not for long more of a peck

I then talk about my availability saying I'm busy during the week & I don't know if I caught all of what she was saying being I was a bit distracted from the kiss but she was also talking about her availability as we leave I go for another kiss I said "give me one more" this time I got close to her put my crotch up against her hips wasn't a make out but it definitely had more passion in it

Now heres the problem I sent her a follow up text the next day in the afternoon it read

"Hey sorry i was kind of distracted

When did you say you were free"

She hasn't texted back. Which might just be me over reacting but I feel like I did everything mostly right am I missing something was this the screw up or was it something I did earlier

Whatever the case might be I honestly wouldn't have gotten this far if it weren't for you guys thank you this was my first date & I had a lot of fun if it's a lost cause doesn't matter I dry humped a girls hips :D