Okay,

So in lieu of the recent post that asked whether people go out, and basically calling out the community for a bunch of [FR]s, I decided to do one of mine. This happened yesterday - most of them seem typical in terms of pickup so don't really demonstrate any kind of learning (so much as positive reinforcment that actually i'm a bad mother fucker that chicks dig...but more aligned with reaity, pickup and taking care of yourself and having the right attitude really does work/help).

I hope this helps, if it doesn't then I'll just reserve bragging rights for being a boss. If it does help, then that was my intention and i'll take the bragging rights for that instead.

So to summarise; - went out on a date (with a girl of an afro-ethnicity, which i've never manged to do before... so that was awesome) - On the way home, started talking to some very cute 19 year old, flirted, touched, got the number and K-closed. - was standing chatting to a couple. The girl, i'd probably count as a HB9, gorgeous, but not in an overt kind of way. She was friendly, chatty and flirty with me, until her boyfriend got defensive.

Date:

I'll not go through the whole thing, but i'll make some general points about shit i did. She was quite timid and shy though, so maybe it wouldn't have worked out as well with some hard headed chick thinking she's boss.

  • Joked about fucking her sister
  • joked about a threesome with her sister and her.
  • offerd to let her stroke the beard
  • Teased her relentlessly
  • Told her i was getting her drunk so i could take her home and fuck her
  • Had a new haircut, was checking myself out vainly and then joking off that i'm really egotistical and super-vain.
  • Told her she was bad cuz she smoked - told her next time we need to light up some green together.

Etc. So, at the end of the night, we're in a taxi, making out.. I am playing with her pussy and her breasts while we're going. And she pretty much begs to get a hotel so we can fuck.

Success, I think.

What I learned from it? 1) It reinforces that girls are just people too. As long as you're having fun and enjoying yourselves it doesn't matter who you're on a date with. 2) Letting her talk freely about stuff she enjoys is great, make sure you actively listen.. ask questions about things she's talking about and relate that to yourself. 3) Even shy girls get horny and want to bone. If you keep the sexual vibe friendly and open going then you've almost halfway done, there hasn't (in my experience) any form of last minute resistance/anti-slut defence or anything. 4) Are you really so nervous? Own the place you're in, be friendly with staff, flirty with barmaids and waitresses and just altogether loud happy and supportive of other peoples' conversations. It's great.

Hope that one helped.

One the way home from this date, a girl on the train, whose friend had passed out and was sleepin came and sat opposite me. We started chatting, she started bragging about her job (cute, she's only 19) so i played with her a bit, gave her a couple of digs... she assumed that my job and hers made us natural enemies, soi i started asking her if that meant we had to fight. Putting up my dukes, she did the same and then she offered to arm wrestle. Felt her arms to see how strong she was.. It was very fun and flirty. There was also a joke that "you've pulled" from some other people in the seats opposite. To which i replied "bullshit, if I had really pulled she'd be sat here", i patted the seat next to me and she came sitting in it. I put my arm around her and pulled her in. Great.

I was just mid-conversation when i realised the train was stopped at my stop. I jumped up, told them all have a great night, patted her unconscious friend on the shoulder and said "good luck tomorrow" and then fucked off.

What did I learn?

Ask for the mother fucking number.... My poor situational awareness did me out of a number for a very cute 19 year old.

Fortune favours the bold - she essentially opened me though.

(for you oneitis-lovers) Should i go on the train again in hopes of catching her,, and asking for her number? Fuck no. She's gone.

Finally, while waiting for a taxi. Some guy and a girl come out of the station and he's very loud and happy. I look at him, then look at the girl... she's beautiful. HB9 at least. I must have lingered my gaze or had a double take - because she told me "oh don't worry about him he's just drunk".

He and I then start chatting, introduce ourselves, and i pointedly look at the girl ask for her name and start chatting with her too. We have a bit of back and forth, fun and are happy about it. The girl and I are chatting friendly too and then her boyfriend starts doing the whole, "I'm going to hug you now sweetie, because I love you, and kiss you" thing - essentially showing clearly that she's his girl and they're together. (If you've never noticed this thing it's quite obvious when it happens. Stand near a couple and start being friendly and chatty with the girl. Watch as the guy ends up kind of isolating her and being all loving and sweet with her to "mark his territory" so to speak).

After ten minutes or so, the conversation had died down while he was rubbing his affection all over her leg, to mark her as his, and I went to my taxi. She shouted out "Bye TMoA! Have a great night, nice to meet you!" and then he did too. We all waved and i went home.

What did I learn?

1) Some great girls are already with pretty cool guys. It's a pity, but such is life. I'm happy for them both and feel nothing bad that I didn't get her number or end up boning her. Just other people going through life having a great time and that's also great!

2) It's quite funny how people have to assert themselves in situations where they feel their girlfriend's eyes are wondering of some other dude is after their woman. He was totally cool, friendly, and not even slightly standoffish,, but it seemed more subconscious behaviour. Interesting. If some guy feels the need to be doing that, then chances are he feels that the girl is at risk of being led astray. If she's friendly and flirty too... that probably means she wants to go for a ride on your happy pole.

3) Win some, lose some. Enjoy the game, love the process and live the world.

TL;DR - Oh well

Forgive any grammatical or spelling errors - i don't proof read.