This girl flaked on me 3 times, but I never actually give up. Some might disagree, but it takes no effort to shoot a random funny text, or just straight up ask a girl out. This girl, she flaked on me 3 times and while I was fucking another girl, she texted me and just said "hey" so after me and the other girl finished having sex, she went to the washroom and I texted this girl back and we had a casual, funny chat. I cut it short after this other girl comes back, and then save it for the morning. I text her after I leave, and just say "Are you free today" and she says "yes" so I just say "Okay, let's go grab a drink at this cozy bar." she says yes. That easy, wow. She lives about a 25 minute drive from the place, but she drove all the way to the bar. I give her a hug, we sit down. The chairs were horribly positioned, I could ONLY sit across from her, it sucked and I did not touch her even once besides the hug in the beginning but eye contact was like.. magnets, we couldn't take our eyes off each other, she even beat me at the staring contest sometimes, I found it kind of difficult to talk and stare.

Anyway, we had normal small talk in the beginning, mainly me asking questions about her but after about 30 minutes of fun, normal conversation, lots of laughter etc. we start to incorporate lots of fun, silly random remarks. I tell her how I'm probably never going to text her again, then we make little jokes like "If I text you and you don't reply in 2 minutes, I'll call you 3 times, and then if you don't pick up I'll probably show up at your place. I'm that type of guy." just funny shit like that. It all went really well, she was amazingly receptive to all my jokes, very attractive and then I say we should go for a walk. It was too cold, told her that we could go for a ride if she doesn't mind using some gas. She was cool with it. Threw on some music, just drove. Talked a tiny bit, mainly listened. 20 minutes later I tell her that there's not much to do on a Sunday night, so I tell her I'd like it if she dropped me off.

Outside my place, I asked her "So.. was this a hangout or a date?" (we made this inside joke during our date. another girl asked me that question after every date and I told her that story.) so she laughed and asked what I'd like it to be. I jokingly said a hangout, I'm not interested, then I laughed and said "Just come here." so she gives me her cheek, I say "what the fuck are you doing?" not in a mean way of course, then she laughs and turns and we makeout for a bit. I separate, she says "So is this a hangout or a date?" we both laugh, I open the car door, told her we'd do this again (we go to the same college, who knew..) and then wished her a good night and left.

She doesn't really ask questions, but as the date went on she got more comfortable and opened up some more. The date lasted only 2 hours too, so it was very short but very efficient, we definitely had some sort of connection, our sense of humor just clicked. I'll probably text her tomorrow.