Confidence/ Appearance:

Something I've noticed from the men who I've just recently met and just men I've happened to just observe intuitively: they care way too much about an opinion of a woman when it comes to looks.

Now, I'm a firm believer in a mothers intuition because let's face it she's a female and seems to know what's best for us but these women you meet aren't your mother. If there's something I've noticed from numerous encounters with women is that they try to "change" something about you, to mold you into their "ideal" man. Cool, they're creative but you're not their canvas. Especially when it comes to appearance.

For instance: I was with a group of women and in comes a man (awesome style, great energy about him, nice hair) and he sits down. Now a girl approaches him and says "You know, you should lose the hairstyle, get something like Channing Tatum" Now this guy was in such a trance (A rather beautiful brunette approached him) that he agreed with her and the very next day he had gotten a haircut and changed his style. He then goes to talk to the same exact girl and she brushes him off as she talks to another guy. I chuckled.

Guys, Rule #1: Be You. Live each and every day knowing that you are yourself, that you are going about life in your best interest and that no one will change that unless it's you as it's a necessary change for your evolution.

Rule #2: You Must Be Confident. Confidence is what keeps you going as a male in a sea of turbulent waters, obstacles at each and every turn. It's what gives you the willpower to carry on. You musn't bow down to things that mesmerize you, that's a horrible trait and it will deffinitely lead you down a rabbit hole in life, let alone with women. Your appearance should be based on what you want to portray yourself as, don't let a soul change that BUT, here's the only "BUT":

If it is a genuine person, someone dear and near to you that tells you out of pure beneficial intention to tweak something then sure, take it into consideration. Otherwise YOU are what decides what happens with YOU. Not your friend, neighbor and especially not a random woman. Women, especially women who actually care about you, are very attracted to a man who is genuine, stand up/ direct, knows himself, is humble, holds his ground, is confident, and has a path they're currently embarking on in life (a life with meaning). Remember men, hold your ground, be yourself, be confident and don't let change come through the door as soon as it knocks, only if it's vital and genuine, other than that everything else is merely opinion.

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