So I have been on a few dates with this one girl (same girl: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/4275pr/fr_first_nontinder_date_in_ages/).

I don't even think they went that well... we had some silences which she really didn't try to fill?! (I had to break the pauses nearly everytime).

Sometimes when I was telling or story or whatever, she didn't really seem that much invested or intersted. No proper follow-up questions just a bit of "aha" and "ok".

I am not even sure what I would want from her. She is cute and I sure wouldn't mind a round but personalitywise? I am not so sure... She always seems happy though and I kinda enjoy talking to her.

All those dates went relatively similar tho. I failed to initiate kino, get sexual (just cant do it with her?!) and we spent 3-5 hours together and in the end went home alone.

By now it really astonishes me that she even would meet again but she somehow still wants to. I thought about that she may just see me as a friend but then we dont have that much in common and that much to talk about (she also seems to have friendzoned some guys or at least she talks about them like that). We also split the bill on every date so it's not like that I give her anything besides my time. I just cant seem to figure out her angle and maybe thats what keeps me interested? To see what she is after?

Cause I'm not sure why I would continue this, if only to gather more experience or whatever... should I just call it yolo, go in the offense and see where it leads? (not sure if I can even do it but will try...)