... with this girl who's been flirting with me for a month or more? We've been in contact for right about two/three months, she clearly likes me and i've made it obvious to her as well. This may be out of the range of some of you newbies. But I'm playing the long game here: my interests are beyond this decade. She's grown up her whole life having men cater to her every whim, treating her like a thirsty man pleasing a ten. She's hot, there's no doubt. After knowing her 5 months (and closely talking with her for 2), i know a lot about her.

Here's the thing: she makes it hard to communicate with her: either i'm asking her dumb mundane questions with no flirtation, or i flirt and i don't hear from it for hours (but she loves the hell out of it).

how do i regain the upper hand on the total seduction? how do i control how our (so so so so goddamned limited) conversations go? how do i use our minimal interaction to make her contact me? i want to see that she wants me just as much, how do i let her show that?