Hey guys. I've been lurking and reading for around a year now, and TRP has helped me a lot through some tough times. However, I know obsess over frame constantly (I lose frame a lot) and I overanalyze every interaction especially with women. Here's the problem. I'm in an LTR which is also long distance and the ideas of holding frame are messing with the good LTR I already have. I think too much about how every female I encounter reacts to my frame and I am dangerously close to treating my LTR as secondary due to my need to demonstrate to myself that my frame has improved. How do I treat women in general? I want to view them as just any other guy so that I don't end up girlfriend-zoning them and over thinking and overanalyzing. Putting TRP into use is overwhelming at times. I exhaust myself just from all the calculation needed, and sometimes I wish I could stop but I cant- I now see everything this way. Any advice on how to take women off the pedestal altogether? There's my mom, my LTR, some close female friends, and the rest have to prove themselves to me. Not me caring about what they think. Help required, I'd really appreciate some to get out of the middle in my head
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