Okay I have had many attractive women look at me in the eyes while walking, asides from smiling, what's the best way of engaging with them?

PaulRocker · 2016-04-21T07:44:39+00:00

Yeah I have this problem too. The only way is to go for it my friend. Stop and say "What's up". Make sure you stop though or else she'll keep walking.

Or keep smiling then turn back and approach. Another way is saying " excuse me..(insert PC question). But it would be mad obvious what you're up too. Today I walked out a coffee shop and made contact with this SEXY ass girl out of nowhere for like 10 seconds. I didn't approach because I was literally drinking and it caught me off guard. But she smiled at me, I smiled back, but I usually smile with my eyes instead of my mouth.

Another time I walked past another gorgeous chick but wasn't paying attention. All I remember is burping and then looked up and saw a hotass girl walking my way. She stared me down until we locked eyes then looked sideways, her eyes were glistening and she was blushing. But once again I missed my mark. It seems every time I'm not focused is when I catch girls looking at me. So I have to look with my peripheral. If I turn my head they will immediately look down or away. It's really cute. I guess you just have to grow a pair or just keep going your merry way.

TheXXL · 2016-04-21T09:15:16+00:00

I was caught off guard because I was thinking about steak

Haha that really made my day, should put that on my online dating profile.

Say hi and smile right?

Yes.

But if she keeps walking do I follow?

Depends, if you mean follow her around i would say, no way. But you could follow her quickly get in front of her and state your intention.

If I didn't get the chance to say hi, do I scream hi behind her back?

No. Absolutely no.

What if she doesn't respond and just smiles and looks away?

Then you laugh it off and go about your day.

I'm getting there, when I smile they smile back but this is when I'm always walking to a destination. I don't want to say that I fear rejection but I just do not like embarrassment, especially because most of the time it's a place where I usually frequent (don't want to be that weird guy).

To many people you will always be that weird guy, just because you dress different then them, or you walk different or even just because you look different. So, why would you care? the most people you pass by, you will never see again, and even if, the majority will have forgotten you in an instant, and those who didn't are too scared to even show what they think about you.

Any advice?

Yes, just do what you feel the best with, push your comfortzone bit by bit and experiment.

I'm looking for mostly creative hooks because I have none.

Don't use canned openers, those are too common. Comment on anything that comes to mind, i always do it that way. Sometimes they roll their eyes, sometimes they get shy and look down sometimes they just don't understand, whatever. For instance: the steak thing, you could just have said to her: "hey, i noticed you and even though i was pretty much in the middle of thinking about a big juicy steak, i had to talk to you."

What do you do, what should I do? When a stare like this happens but it's in a walking-crossing paths scenario?

What do you do when you need to ask someone where the next post office is? Approaching a girl is nothing else, with the only difference that your intent is different. So don't overthink, be your confident and funny self, make them laugh, make them feel good, and you are half way through.

IANAPUA_Yet · 2016-04-21T15:09:05+00:00

A few months ago, I was in this club, making my way towards the bathroom. As I was getting close, this really hot chick comes out of the women's bathroom and walks past me on my left. On her way by, she used her left hand to grab my left wrist for literally just a few milliseconds. It was a very deft and powerful form of kino. An excellent way for her to say hi.

But I never got a good look at her. I had noted her presence, but that was really just the collision-avoidance part of my brain. I didn't actually look at her. So... I couldn't have picked her out of a lineup to save my life. ::shrug:: Just had to go on with my night.

Don't lose sleep over the ones that get away. Just try keep practicing and try to improve your reaction time, so that maybe you'll be quick enough with the next one.

drlothariothuggut · 2016-04-21T02:35:51+00:00

Once I have made eye contact, I'll smile and say "you got a staring problem?" to break the ice

Title	Okay I have had many attractive women look at me in the eyes while walking, asides from smiling, what's the best way of engaging with them?
Author	gareiu
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Date	April 21, 2016 2:26 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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