I realized that the most true path to reach confidence is by going beyond social conventions. I started not caring about what others think of me,and acting genuinely as i was home and like a child: by being honest in every situation. If i want to say hi i say it,if i like someone i show it without being scared of my emotions. Because,who said that you can't tell what you feel,who said that i can't be honest and hide my feelings just to attract someone and pretend to not be interested. I hate these rules,i hate the game thing which seems more like a manipulation thing. Seduction is not manipulation,seduction is like art; you can use your feelings to draw moments,moments that no rule can teach you to have. This was my theory,i'm happy to have accomplished it,not because it's an universal code but just because it doesn't make me feel empty or like a machine. Sorry for my english,it's not my first language :)