How to respond to "I bet you say that to all girls" shit test?

2016-05-19T17:37:43+00:00

Lot of different ways to go with this one, and if you're reading most of these responses and cringing that's probably good. The most important part of your response is going to be your body language and eye contact.

You can go agree&amplify like /u/allupinthevip suggested. Confidence and a smirk to carry that answer.

You can go total ignore mode - literally just ask her a totally different question with an indifference and subtle demanding aura that tells her you know the game she's playing and you're so far above it you won't even go there. Again confidence is the game.

Lastly you can go Ryan Gosling mode - look her dead in the eyes, look straight into her soul, and tell her "What does it matter what I say to other girls? I'm here.. talking to you.. right now." This is probably more advanced, but if this approach meshes with your personality and looks, it can melt women. You have to be supremely confident though, you can not be smirking, this isn't cocky and funny. You have to stare into her soul and tell her that you and her are the only things in the room right now. This can't be supplicating though. It has to come from a place of power, warmth and abundance. Don't get sappy afterwards, continue with strong frame and qualifying her- does she always ask guys about their sex life, or just the really attractive ones?

DaygameCoach · 2016-05-19T21:11:55+00:00

You're one million, two hundred and forty......three.

2016-05-21T16:12:43+00:00

"I bet you say that to all the guys."

As an example of how this worked in a non-attraction scenario, I was helping a stripper-in-training install a pole (seriously) and walking up to her house she said "You aren't going to kill me are you?" and I responded "No! You aren't going to kill me either are you?" she giggled, and realized perhaps it was a silly question.

TheXXL · 2016-05-19T07:40:39+00:00

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SuaveSeduction · 2016-05-19T13:33:50+00:00

sarcastic tone "No... just you... you're special" roll your eyes

straight faced "Of course I say it to all the girls, it gets me laid like a Rockstar..." smile "I'll see you at the end of the night" wink, give her the double guns, and walk away

Scratch that... give her only a single gun... double is too much. She has to earn that bad boy.

Title	How to respond to "I bet you say that to all girls" shit test?
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Date	May 19, 2016 7:33 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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