So this isn't something self proclaimed nor is it something I've really thought of. I'm 24 now and I've been having trouble with girls recently. All of them just want to friend the shit out of me for some reason.

I was talking to a girl I've known for awhile and she says I've become a lot nicer (laugh/smile too much) and I should just be the douche I was in college to get girls.

I can obviously smile and laugh less and act like a douche but it isn't myself anymore. What are you guys' thoughts on acting in a certain way to game?