Should I tell the girl I want to sleep with her because I'm confidend, or should I not care if it's not happening when it comes to sex?

Jacob_961 · 2016-05-25T14:23:39+00:00

LEAD THE GIRL TO SEX, DON'T PUT HER IN A SITUATION THAT WOULD LABEL HER A SLUT, THIS IS JUST BASIC COMMON SENSE.

Women desire to be desired. All the confidence and no filter stuff that the PUA community teaches is for you to get out of your own way and express yourself freely and to demonstrate value behaviorally.

Once you get in a situation where sex is possible, it is your job to push for sex. Why would a girl want to have sex with someone who doesn't want her, second basic common sence. You show her that you are turned on by her, only during the seduction location.

The confidence and investing less in the girl than she is willing to invest in you is so that you build attraction and show high value. Once in bed, YOU TRY EVERYTHING YOU CAN TO HAVE SEX. This is not the time to be James Bond.

She likes you, you made out, now take her out and get comfortable with her and make an excuse to get her to where sex is possible and seal the deal.

You've done well until now. Make seddit proud!

2016-05-25T19:15:10+00:00

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DudeToCool · 2016-05-25T18:32:45+00:00

Actually imo, its best to not push for sex but to make the girl comfortable around you. If it happens cool, if not no big deal. The thing your aiming for is comfort. Genuinly mean things you say to the girl like "its cool, communicate with me if you want me to stop at any point." Shows non-neediness and lack of investment for sex.

Title	Should I tell the girl I want to sleep with her because I'm confidend, or should I not care if it's not happening when it comes to sex?
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Date	May 25, 2016 1:47 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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