Why are you not talking to that girl.

Find your excuse and accept it.

Mine is coming off as pathetic or weird. Other people struggle with self esteem or lack of social skills. Or just being ugly.

Maybe I am weird or pathetic when I go out my way. That's fucking awesome though. Men don't approach women that often nowadays and that's why its labeled as desperate.

That right there is the key.

I will give an example.

I don't know what to say I will come off as awkward. That's awesome. Most guys bring up stupid stuff and I will generally look for an interest.

Before you approach, always visualize the situation and conversation in a good way.

The more detailed the better.

Happy hunting m80s.