I've been seeing this girl for a couple of months now, and it was getting pretty serious. Now she just wants to be friends with benefits.

DJVendetta · 2016-06-09T23:08:21+00:00

...good?

Mouthpiece · 2016-06-09T23:48:39+00:00

Sounds to me more like she wants the validation of having a "friend" and doesn't have so much interest in the benefits part.

The way to increase your hookups is to turn her on. Get her tingling with excitement. You also need to be less available for her validation purposes.

Being busy with other women you're dating is a great way to pull arise her interest. She'll either re-kindle her attraction to you, based on the competition, or reality will expose yourself, namely that she really didn't want to have sex with you anymore.

Either way, you win. You either uncover a false pretense on her part (and bail) or you get more and better sex.

Title	I've been seeing this girl for a couple of months now, and it was getting pretty serious. Now she just wants to be friends with benefits.
Author	xxpainstakingxx
Upvotes	1
Comments	2
Date	June 9, 2016 9:27 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/4nd17h/ive_been_seeing_this_girl_for_a_couple_of_months/
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