I've been trying to incorporate teasing in my text on tinder to break the ice and loosen her up a bit. And for the girls that likes texting a lot. But I have trouble getting jokes across. I met this girl she wanted to meet up, but I overtly did the teasing and it came off kind of insulting.

The question is that, how can my teases and banter come out more playful and fun instead of serious?

I noticed that at certain times, my teases actually comes off lighthearted and fun, but most of the time I fuck it over. I just emoji to convey that I am joking. " ;) "

How can I get better? And as of tinder I texted around 20 girls, all flaked expect 1.