Girl suggests bringing xyz along; how to respond?

fezzesarecool4768 · 2016-06-21T00:24:04+00:00

Next time, Kino and give her a kiss!

Aside from that, if she suggests it, say something flirty and jokey, "Yeah, that's cool, XYZ can be our third wheel. Hope XYZ won't mind when I start kissing you!"

mmazinmolz · 2016-06-21T01:14:00+00:00

I'd say just go with it! I experienced this for the first time ever when my current BF and I first went out ( we've been together a year and a half now). The first few times we met up he always insisted on his best friend and his best friend's girlfriend being there( even if we were doing super platonic things). At first I was a little put off by it,I wasn't sure if I had read the signals correctly, if it was because he wanted them there for an easy out in case thing went terrible, wanted their opinion of me before making a move ,or if he was just more comfortable with introducing someone new into his life surrounded by people he was always around and felt most comfortable with. After dating a while I realized he was just shy and kind of unsure of what vibes I was giving him, and wanted his friends there so he'd be more at ease and if I wasn't interested it could pass as a hang out not a date. My advise is while respecting her wishes make it clear you are into her, don't rely on subtle hints, take a risk and make a move. If she's not interested, you will pick up on her or her friends reactions real quickly.

Woujo · 2016-06-21T01:28:26+00:00

Admittedly I am still in a 'beta' mindset. I imagine that in an 'alpha' mindset, you would come out and straight up say "No, just the two of us" (making your intentions clear).

No. The alpha mindset is doing whatever you want to do. Do you want to hang out with XYZ? Then do it. If XYZ was a hot girl or an awesome guy, I would do it. If not, don't. I wouldn't say "no they can't come" because that looks pathetic. I would just kind of lose interest.

So this is what I would do:

Me: Let's hang out Thursday at 9 at X bar Her: Sounds great! Can I bring my friend X? Me: Sure.

And then I go radio silent. No more calls or texts. If she happens to go to X bar on Thursday and I'm not there, I'll just say "oh I forgot."

Yeah that sounds fucked up but that's what an "alpha" would do.

Title	Girl suggests bringing xyz along; how to respond?
Author	kittenmagichunter123
Upvotes	4
Comments	8
Date	June 20, 2016 11:57 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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