If I were to be completely honest with myself, I don't look bad at all. Far from I would say if of course you're into black guys however I've recently started college and other than my random tinder luck on the first day, I feel like I am seriously missing out right now. I definitely have approach anxiety 75% of the time and I have no idea what to say when the moment arrives unless something interesting just happened that I can open with. Usually if they're receptive it's much easier and I get a confidence boost but closing is definitely hard for me too as I don't have much experience with this but I do genuinely feel pretty confident in certain settings to where I've got 20 new girls on snap but other than random splurges where I count down and go for it I am lost. My final question I guess is how do I get past approach anxiety, what do you guys open with/talk about, and how do I close