I just read the topic "Ex-girlfriend tried conditioning me into her personal beta-orbiter" and I have questions. I went through a breakup about 4-5 days ago, and left it on her to break up the relationship. I brought my concerns up, and she attempted to dodge actually breaking up with me. I wanted her to do it, solely so she could own up to at least one thing during our time together.

That said, now that she's done such a thing, what are steps I can take to make this easier? I often hear that the best way to get over a woman is to get with another woman. Is this true?