Hey guys.

When it comes down to text game, there seems to be a lot of nitpicking and in my opinion irrelevant advice. Text this or that way, at that time, with that tone blabla. Sure some texting etiquette is helpful but most of the time the quality of a text conversation comes down to whether she already likes you or not. The form is which you text matters a lot less than the intention behind what you say. This is where the difference is made. Just like it is said in person, showing intent is capital. Through the past year I have interacted with a ton of girls via text and I have come to a conclusion that seems pretty obvious but is still powerful.

You want your texts to make an impression? Make them impactful. Be bold. Say what you really want to say. Girls love to have their world rocked. Sometimes through text you can say things that would have been riskier to say in person, like a strong sexual comment, without the risk of it failing because of her being uncomfortable with it at the moment and making it awkward. Texting eliminates those obstacles. So go right ahead.

I will put two examples of single texts I have sent that had a massive impact on the rest of the interaction with a girl. In both cases I had a gut feeling that I wanted to spark something quickly but that it was too early in person for several reasons (peer pressure, context etc.) So I wrote a text, and pressed send. Wasn't sure how it d be received but I breathed in and pressed send because fuck it.

Case 1: Girl I had met 2 days prior in group setting, the whole group was talking about sex and she made comments about her high libido. So 2 days later I got her number because we had a group gathering and to coordinate. I had to send her a text or ring so she would get mine. Before that, the tone wasnt sexual between us. I texted her "Now you know where to find me when your hormones kick in ;)". When I sent it it was mostly as a joke because of what she said. Her reply was "Haha I'll keep that in mind :)". Boom. A single text changed the whole thing. From then on she opened up a lot more. We slept together days later, and she told me she loved how cheeky that text was and it turned her on.

Case 2: met a hot girl at a party, mutual friends, talked a bit, in a purely friendly manner. We later went to the beach and tried to set up another one. So we were in a group text convo, and she texted that she wasnt free before next weekend. I barely knew her at that point, but she was hot af and I wanted to make an impression. So I sent a text to the group convo with a clear sexual comment regarding her. That was actually risky as fuck but it paid off. I sent "fuck no way I can't see your aphrodite's body for another week" Immediately after I received texts from my buddies who were surprised and amused and a text from her saying "maybe we should wait to know each other better before we start making fun of each other". So I answered that making fun of each other was a great way to build comfort, to push it a little further. She answered that she would like me to not make anymore of these kind of jokes about her in the group convo. So I could tell she was pissed off, and told her that I didn't mean to make her uncomfortable and that it certainly wasnt a joke, she was beautiful. Looked like it kinda backfired? Well no. Ensued a long ass text convo about that day at the beach and the little things that happened between us, and about the way she reacted to my text. Ended with her trying to justify that she wasnt suscetible and promising she would not get pissed off next time I showed her appreciation. The next day my girl friends told me she talked a lot about me blabla. Week later she was hooked and we slept together.

So the spark in both these stories was a single, bold, impactful text. Made everything much simpler by cutting through the shit and going for the homerun in a non risky fashion. An unapologetic text is a very good weapon, use it!