I had a chance to have a threeway but chickend out did I make the right choice?

RealAlex · 2016-07-17T13:42:07+00:00

I recommend posting again in r/sex. It's probably a better community to ask and receive advice about this sort of thing.

That being said you didn't do anything wrong or lame by refusing their invitation. Sex with just one person is a complicated balance of physical and emotional intimacy and if you haven't become to enter that playing field a threeway can be intimidating. I wouldn't worry about the missed opportunity because once you've gotten a bit more experience the opportunity may present itself again. There's no shortage of people who want to be adventurous in bed.

IWriteForGroupies · 2016-07-17T13:58:06+00:00

There are no wrong decisions. If you not ready, you not ready.

Footnob · 2016-07-17T19:21:56+00:00

You didnt do anything wrong. They wanted you to dominate them. You want experience, you wanted sex in a save atmosphere. Both parties, where looking for something different. Dont be ashamed. BUT for the next time: what i would have done is, "guys, im inexperienced, i cant dominate you." Beeing honest with them. Maybe they would have told you that they can take care of you. So you could have gotten some experience out of it. And if they said they cant do it, you didnt lose either way. Honesty is your best weapon in situations like these. Thats my humble oppinion.

DaygameCoach · 2016-07-17T19:41:37+00:00

Only you know if your decision is correct for you. We can't decide that for you. If you weren't up for it, it's fine to decline. You don't have to sleep with just anybody.

Ghili · 2016-07-17T20:27:49+00:00

There is no right or wrong answer here dude. If you wanted to do it, you should have, if you didn't want to, you shouldn't have. You chose what you wanted to do, so in this case that's the right choice.

Title	I had a chance to have a threeway but chickend out did I make the right choice?
Author	Footnob
Upvotes	0
Comments	7
Date	July 17, 2016 12:17 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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