This post is for anyone but mostly for guys who have some good experience, are starting to figure things out but when it comes to that 9/10 they want they just seem to fall short. Most of these are common advice but even after years of experience and tons of lays. I still need a reminder or find myself falling into some of these. From my experience these are some of the things you may be doing wrong.

1. You are putting her on a pedestal

Alright now this is usually an obvious one but an important one that needs to be talked about and is actually a huge underlying part in the remaining steps. I'm not saying you are just looking at her like this unattainable creature. I'm talking about you are treating her that way too. You treat her differently than you would a 6/7 or even a fat chick. Stop doing that. Treat her as if you've known her for years.

A lot of guys who go on first dates with these women start the date out asking them "did you find the place okay?" Would You talk to a person you've known for 10 years like that? No you wouldn't. Comfort and attraction are what get you laid quick. Act comfortable around her and like you've known her forever, as soon as you meet her and she will feel comfortable too.

2. You become less fun when speaking/hanging out with her

You're usually this fun guy who doesn't give a shit about what women think. You have a 6 who wants you and you think. "Eh she's good but let me see if I can get better" this carefree attitude is what gets women in the first place.

In walks HB10, you stop. You think "wow, I have to have her, what should I say, what should I do?" That or you initially attract her and then start saying it texting her weird, needy shit. Or you become this serious dude when you hangout with her. FUN should be your number one priority. You should always be having more fun than her. I also see a lot of guys get intimidated by a woman who has a busy and fun lifestyle and feel like you have nothing to offer. If this is you, you need to start making some changes in your life to make it more exciting. And I'm NOT saying to do this for her. Do this because it will overall make you a better, happier person.

Stop taking things so serious when you're around her and don't be afraid to let loose. Even if you fuck up. Brush it off and keep moving.

3. You're putting way too much pressure on getting her.

"But bulk_king11 she's so hot and I think she likes me. What will I do if I don't get her, I may never find anyone like her?" Im here to tell you two very important things AFC. Who cares and you will. I promise, I was there once or even a couple times. And guess what? I didn't die and I still found hotter and better (one doesn't mean the other). Some call this oneitis. I call it not having enough women in your life. You should have multiple women in your life,that way you won't be putting all this pressure on yourself if you don't get "this one"

You obsess over her and this will almost always show through your behavior towards her. You become needy and validation seeking and we all know that's the number one female boner killer.

There are over 3.5 billion woman in the world. Stop caring about just one.

4. You secretly resent her

Serious, this one is huge and not often mentioned. I read this in blackdragons blog (go check it out for a better understanding of this) and realized it was a problem I had no idea I had. For most of us it is subconscious. We were raised (through society and tv, movies, other media) to believe that hot women are all bitchy and stuck up. They get attention so easy from everyone, and that makes them stuck up, awful people, who think they are better than everyone else. This is very untrue and often holds up back from getting hot women. A lot of them are actually just very insecure. For most of us we think, I don't think like that but if you take a deep look inside you subconsciously do think like that. You need to wipe that belief clean and realize not all or even most hot women are stuck up.

5. You are giving her too much of your time, attention, and effort

This happens a lot when you have been chilling with her. Maybe even fucked her a couple times and she tends to back off. You start to get the good feels inside and want more and more of that. You ask her to hangout all the time and even cancel plans to fit her in.

One of the most common myths guys believe is "if I don't keep spending time with her or stay fresh in her mind. She's going to forget about me" I'm here to tell you that's bullshit (to an extent). Unless you're boring as fuck. If she is without you or doesn't hear from you when she expects it. She will think more about you. Think of that sick vacation you went on and had a blast at for a weekend. How often do you think about that and going back to it? Quite often I'm sure, be like that vacation. Read my post about "being an experience" if you want to know how to do this.

Stop texting her back right away and stop always jumping at the opportunity to hangout or do everything she asks.

Well all this is good and all but how do I actually put these tips into reality?

You need to make your life full of abundance, you need abundance of woman start fucking 4s if you have to. Fuck a bunch turn them into fuck buddies. Then try and fuck hotter and hotter till you have an abundance of hot chicks at your feet.

Live in an abundance of fun. Make your life as fun as possible. I'm not saying quit your job or not get your shit done. But when you have the time. Make the most out of it. Find people who do cool shit. Make them your friends.

Be a busy person. Make your life's mission your main goal and pussy second. If your main goal is to get pussy. You're going to be selling yourself short in the long run. Focus on you and the woman will come.

Last and most importantly. GET OFF OF HERE. Seriously. Most of you guys spend hours and hours. Reading post after post. Watching RSD video after rsd video. They are fucking amazing. But then you do nothing they talk about. You need to pick some things you want to implement in your life and go out and see how they work. Just because they worked for someone on here. Don't mean they will work for you (including this post). But you have to be taking action to find that out for yourself. If you're afraid of failure, you already failed.

TL;DR get her off the pedestal, and start living in abundance. Stop resenting her and Make your life more fun than hers.