Found TRP about three months ago. It had been a week since I broke up with my on-off girlfriend of four years (various reasons). Upon my discovery of TRP, I realized it provided the perfect explanation for all of the issues in my previous relationship. Everything made sense.

Fast forward to a week ago. I've been talking to and hanging with a chick I went to college with, but we never really got to know each other. So, we hang out in person and she’s showing serious interest in me, it comes up that she has a boyfriend. I start asking her about it. She’s talking about all the problems with her current relationship. He’s clearly a beta who has put up with her shit...time after time. She told me multiple times over the last week that she doesn’t want to marry her boyfriend and she doesn’t see herself with him, nor does she really love him anymore. She’s confused about how to end her relationship. She stated she wants to keep talking and hanging out, but that it’s "dangerous". Also, I know she’s got a few beta orbiters and I’m not about to be one of those dudes. We hung out to go for a run that she invited me on yesterday. She told me she feels like she’s already emotionally cheated on her boyfriend with me. She said she wanted to give me a time frame for her to break up with her boyfriend, but I told her I wasn’t having that. So, at the end of our hang sesh, I told her that we shouldn’t hang out anymore and that even though I think she’s fun, I’d rather be fun and physical, and without the physical part, I’m not into it. Told her I wasn’t going to respond to her texts anymore and left her apartment. She was kind of in shock. Haven’t talked to her since. She texted me a few times.

I think that if I wanted to, I could get in between her and her boyfriend. I think if I hung out with her enough, showed her my value, held frame always (which I have), and talked to her often, I could convince her to break up with him without saying it directly. My feelings are that I’d rather it happen on it’s own while I do my own thing and fuck other women. She’s not important enough for me to want to spend time trying to get them to break up. Too much effort and stress. Time should be spent on focusing on myself, not having oneitis. If she ends up breaking up with him soon, then I get to fuck her when she does. If she doesn’t ever end up breaking up with him, then whatever. Abundance. I need to maintain frame and not talk to her. I absolutely would have fucked her at any point though. I think I possibly fucked this up by talking to her about her relationship, though.

What do you guys think? Give me some feedback.