I don't mean a 0 approaches, or didn't go out kind of night. I mean a 2 or 3 openers that didn't lead anywhere mostly because you just aren't there kind of night. It was iluminating, but ultimately gloomy.

For the last 2 or 3 weeks I've stopped sarging as much as I usually do because I've been dating 3 girls. Today, I went out sarging and realized that it's terrible to miss out on sarging practice. The less you sarge, the more difficult it is. It was a terrible, terrible night of sarging. Hadn't had a night this bad in a while!

Whether you have girls or not is irrelevant. Sarging is like swimming, you can't jump into 200m. You can't take a couple of weeks off and go back to doing 200m in the same time as before. You have to do it every week for months before you can even finish it, let alone keep your time. If you miss on practice, you lose skill. I've realized that spending time with the girls I met sarging is, ironically, the end of my sarging skills. I can't stop sarging frequently and keep my skills sharp.

Does this mean that I need to find a girl that is okay with me sarging at least 3 or 4 nights a week? Or does it mean I should let my skills deteriorate and die because I spend too much time with N number of girls?