Friday night I went clubbing in a park in my city... Kinda nice place I have to say. Anyway I was having some social time and I ended up sitting on a bench with this lesbian girl (hey... she was funny and we might end up winging each other)... We were chatting and laughing and at some point, after a minute or so of silence she comes out with these words:

"Man... you are scary as fuck."

Now... it happened to me before so I was genuinely curious

"Scary like?"

"How you smile... and the eyes too... this look... but I bet you already know"

"I heard about that, will you please tell me why?"

"I don't know... there is something really unsettling in how you look at me. And your smile..."

Then we went on talking about something else and mocking a friend of hers who was sitting there pretending not to listen.

But the truth is it really was not the first time I heard this... That I have a scary glance and smile... I heard it the first time when I was 16 and then I had people telling me that some girls were phisically attracted, but thought I was some kind of psycho.

Once I even had a famous burlesque dancer telling me the same (I work in a theatre) as she was waiting to go on stage:

"Man, you are really disturbing."

"Yeah, they kicked me out a Marylin Manson concert because of that... thanks for reminding me."

"No! It did come out bad! It is a very beautiful trait."

"What?"

"This vibe you have... like the feeling of a straight razor. I think you should enhance that."

So... I am wondering if this particular vibe some people (both men and women) perceive about me could be good or bad for my game... Well sure it is bad for comfort, but what about attraction? Should I try and enhance it or find out what it is and tone it down a notch?