how to flirt and what it is?

2016-09-07T17:35:45+00:00

Flirting- behave as though attracted to or trying to attract someone, but for amusement rather than with serious intentions.

Flirting comes down to two things: self-amusement and creating polarity.

Self-amusement is basically only doing and saying things that make you have a good time. When you approach a girl, say things that are genuine but also make you feel good. If this means saying that she looks like a sexy rabbit, by all means say it. The goal is to show her that you are not outcome dependent and that you are talking to her for your entertainment.

Creating polarity is the easiest way to create the tension for flirting. Disagree with what she says, but only if you genuinely do. bickering is the easiest way to flirt. Challenge what they believe, but do it in a fun and joking way. Never insult their beliefs, that is completely different from challenging them. Lastly, when creating polarity, never get in a debate. Keep it light and playful.

Jacob_961 · 2016-09-07T13:49:50+00:00

Steve Scott - Flirt Mastery (Good book)

Flirting:

My favorite is telling a girl she is gorgeous and tell her you find her attractive. It creates more tention than the community makes it out to be. True sexual intent is different than tell her you find her hot. Its telling her "Oh what I would like to do to you right now if only we were alone." with lazer eye contact. She will look at your eyes to see if you are saying it to induce a response or it's genuine. If you don't flinch and you're comfortable in your sexuality and you are uninhibted, it's cuts through all the bullshit. You're a sexual threat which is much better than the gay friend.
Always you have to have a serious willingness to walk away. She doesn't matter. You want her but she doesn't matter. Her value is derived of what she can give you. She doesn't owe you shit but she has value to the degree that she complies in making your experience of life better. A hot girl that is not complying has 0 value to you. You have 0 fear of rejection. You got a million girls you can flirt with. If she messes up and is being unreceptive. Telling her you find her attractive and want to make sure she is on the same page as you, otherwise there is no need to talk gives you serious presense. Don't waste my time.
Correct frame. I am the an amazing choice for you and we both know it. I like you, are you gonna play games or are we gonna have an amazing time together, connecting and having the best experience possible?
Games you can play include flipping the script. Tell the girl to buy you a drink. Tell her to stop stairing at your ass. Her not to expect you to put out and the first day. Anything that frames that she is trying to hit on you. All of this is playful, yet gets the desired response.
Role playing. You tell her she's your girlfriend for the next 5 minus. "Quick question... will you marry me?".

Most of all. Just go out and hit on women, left, right and center. It organizes all the concepts in your head. You can read about how to play Tennis all your life, correct positioning, etc... but if you don't play the game, it doesn't even matter.

Last thing... be happy with yourself and your life. It's difficult to love a troll.

DaygameCoach · 2016-09-07T20:03:30+00:00

Read Superflirt and Superdate (in that order) by Tracey Cox. Amazon Used sells them cheaply.

Title	how to flirt and what it is?
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Date	September 7, 2016 7:04 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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