Mystery (who has an average-looking wife [7] and is back to performing street magic) suggests you to sit down across from her and lean back during a date.

A website I read through called Introverted Badass (which has a shitty Alexa ranking) suggests you to sit down next to her so you can touch & kino her more easily and more often.

What the hell should I do? Are both wrong? Should I just "be like water" like Bruce Lee (someone who had a net worth of $10,000,000) suggests?