19-year old girl creeped out by kino concernedparent25 September 28, 2016 4 upvotes /r/seduction I met him a week ago at school. He came right up to me and said i was really cute and we started talking and exchanged numbers. Anyway, we went on a date the other day and he kept on sitting really close and putting his arms around me and my waist. He also wanted to cuddle a lot. He would rub my back nonstop. It was literally the first date. He would also compliment me a lot. I am not entirely against any of this after a few dates even, but it was weird considering we dont know each other. To make matters worse, after the date we were texting and he asked if i had ever had a bf, and i said no. He then went on about how that is why i was so nervous and didn't want to be touched or complimented. He also said it was sad that i dont have any experience with guys and that he can teach me how to kiss and even lose my virginity to him, but he said that he doesn't want a serious relationship. He also said guys wont want me if i dont know how to kiss. To give you some background, neither of his parents are really in his life. His mom is now, after being gone for a long time, and he never like his dad. Maybe that has something to do with it? I also want to mention that i wan't nervous on the date, just not that attracted to him and he creeped me out. I just hate how he makes it seem like my inexperience with guys is the problem and not him. I also have always heard that if a guy touches you a lot like that, he only wants sex. So, is this normal for a first date, or am I just inexperienced? And is it a problem that im 19 and never even made out with a guy? tl;dr: Date was really touchy feely on first date and dont know if i am in the wrong, or him? From: https://dg.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/54twhm/i19f_had_a_date_with_a_guy23m_who_was_too_touchy/
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