Great opener bad closer. Been on so many dates, very little action

2016-10-02T19:18:13+00:00

How do you know you're charming and charismatic offline?

kylemaster38 · 2016-10-02T21:21:08+00:00

Once you hold their hand everything else is easy. If you're sitting down somewhere, say you want to show them something else, stand up, and put your hand out. You don't even need to look at them just act like they're expected to do it. From there, play with their fingers, get in close, sit down on a bench while still holding their hand. If you're as charming as you said you were, this shouldn't be hard to move to sexual physicality.

revente · 2016-10-02T23:22:35+00:00

Type of the date won't change anything, the problem lies inside you. Focus on your intentions. Do you want to touch the girl? Then fucking take a deep breath, and fucking do it. Allright sometimes kino can be awkward. But don't overthink and just plow through it. Remember that one of the most important functions of kino is to build mutual comfort.

TheBadGuyFromDieHard · 2016-10-02T19:58:22+00:00

What kind of dates are you going on that you find it hard to escalate?

2016-10-02T20:38:51+00:00

Try hiking or something instead of a fixed place.

Jaminweasley · 2016-10-02T21:44:24+00:00

I feel the opposite. I go on like 3 dates in the past 5 years, and then come away with 3 different relationships lasting between 7 months and 3 years

Title	Great opener bad closer. Been on so many dates, very little action
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Date	October 2, 2016 6:28 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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