Hey guys i am 18 year old Korean guy really motivated to fix the issues i have to get into a relationship so here are my pros and cons and would be nice which cons i should work first over another and how to do it.

Pros:

  1. Funny, this has to be the number one thing about me, people say i am super funny guy who is totally random.

  2. Talkative, i have to say this is a pro and con because girls are social beings but at the same time i talk way to much.

  3. Above average height 5,10-5,11. Alot of girls like tall guys

  4. Decent looking guy. Always helps to be somewhat decent looking

  5. Hobby. I like to collect audiophile headphones etc also i play paintball once and awhile with bowling and might try fishing

  6. passionate. I have goals in my life i want to achieve

  7. Great personality

Cons:

  1. Awful grades. Literally worse then A Or B

  2. Depression. I feel really discraced of my grades and dont know what to do to improve myself also just thinking about all the bad things about me.

  3. Shy. I really want to approach girls but i have this butterfly feeling and cant keep eye contact with hot girls.

  4. Low confidence. I literally feel like a failure in my life because i cant get girls bad grades etc.

  5. Sensetive. I feel like i care way to much what other people think of me and if its bad i feel really bad inside.

  6. Loud. I talk way to loud and way to hyper around girls and turn them off.

  7. I feel like i need validation like if girl likes me or if i am attractice etc.

I really want to be a alpha male and not be potrayed as a sterotypical shy asian guy etc and date hot western girls.