Yesterday I met up with 2 friends to just have a good time. We ended up having the time of our lives and having a night which for me personally was one of the BEST nights I had since I joined this community.

My friend and I met up around 3 PM in one of the shopping streets of the nearby city and we just started vibing with one another in order to get things started. We did a couple of approaches to warm up. We were laughing more and more and having more and more fun till at one point I wanted to try jumping on top of one of the garbage bins. My friend asked a random passerby if she thought I’d make it. She said she didn’t know, but that she’d stay in case I needed first aid, as she was a doctor. So I jumped on top of the garbage bin and it was epic. Afterwards we realized that doctor should have never let me do that :’)

A bit later, we ran into a Russian girl. My friend opened with “take a picture of us.” as she had a camera. She thought taking a picture with one of our cellphones, but we told her it was with her camera. Afterwards we took her on a trip through parts of the city I actually hadn’t even been to before. “Let’s go on an adventure”, right? So we were laughing, doing dumb stuff like going down a slide near a church, telling her I was 5 years old. Then we brought her back to her hostel after we made her promise she’d come out with us later that night.

We went back to my room to get our coats as it was getting cold and ran into some girls from a youth movement. They had tiger stripes on their faces, so naturally, I yelled “TIGERS”. They weren’t amused. Coming out of my room, with our coats, we passed some other girls from the same youth movement. They were apparently playing some sort of game. We talked with them for a little bit. They were trying to find different nationalities. There was a Dutch couple also there, which we then guided to the Market square and gave some tourist advice on where to go. We said goodbye to the girls and left for the party square, to go grab a drink. It was like 7:30 PM at the time.

So we’re just sitting in the bar, talking with the (really hot) waitress, when suddenly some girls from that same youth movement entered the same bar. This time they had to count bottle caps or something. I don’t know. They were standing right next to me and they too had tiger stripes on their faces. So I yelled “TIGERS”. Because you know, I’m really original and witty and all that. This time the girls introduced themselves. “Hi, my name is M.” “Hi I’m Sailing to Philly, nice to meet you.” I put my hand forward and she took it. I shaked it. She said “You know, you’re holding my hand for quite some time now.”, to which I replied “I know. They’re warm. I like it when a girl has warm hands.” Then she asked if I wanted her number. So I took down her number. Then she left. I texted her, we’re meeting up next Saturday. She’s hot as fuck too. I still don’t have any idea what the fuck happened there.

After that, we went to pick up my fuckbuddy and had dinner with the 3 of us. It was hilarious. She knows everything I know about the pickupcommunity, and is pretty fucking awesome about it. After dinner, we went to the bar where I had my first ever beer, reminiscing and talking about how much different we are now compared to before we discovered this community.

Afterwards we went back to the party square, to wait for a second friend. He joined us for a drink and we went outside to go pick up the Russian girl from earlier. So we went to her hostel and took her with us back to the party square. We were standing outside for a bit and I opened a 2set. They were really hot. And French. My French sucks, but it was fun regardless. We went into the Pick and started having a ton of fun. There weren’t a whole lot of girls there however (like 60-40 male-female) so we had a venue change to a second bar, where we ended up staying, dancing like mad men, having fun, doing a couple of sets, but nothing big. Then the music suddenly became a lot quieter however, so we went back outside, where we talked for a bit. My friend opened a girl on a bench, while I took the rest to the cinema right across the street in order to give them some privacy. Afterwards, we went back to the first bar.

Once we got there, we quickly moved to the center of the dancefloor. My friend and me had a really good self-amusing vibe going and were honestly just having a blast, dancing around and singing along with the music like idiots. Pretty soon, the French girls from earlier, who had brought 2 more friends, noticed us and were just laughing because we were bringing the party. Me and my friend were dancing physically with my fuckbuddy and the Russian girl (as in we both danced with both), when at some point, I took one of the French girls’ Minnie Mouse tiara and put it on my head. They became invested and our groups merged. We now had a group of 3 men and 6 women, in the middle of the dance floor, in a bar with a 60-40 male-female ratio. It was hilarious. At one point, one of the French girls took me by the wrist to the hottest of the four of them and told me to dance with her. YAY for more physical dancing.

A bit later some douche started dancing with my fuckbuddy, who was clearly uncomfortable with that, so I grabbed her and grinded with her.

Not long after that, it was 2:45 am, and me and my fuckbuddy left for my room. At 4 AM, we decided to go sleep :P

Things I took away from this:

  • Persistence is a cool thing (with the youth movement girls)

  • Self-amusement is key. We were bringing the party wherever we went. Girls wanted to be in on our fun.

  • A wingman you have a good connection with can help you get in state soooo quickly.

  • Leading turns girls on like crazy. Throughout the entire night I led the party and brought the party. My fuckbuddy described it as women almost literally throwing themselves at me.