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Shit test are becoming out of hand

uppermostless · 2014-08-19T21:30:41+00:00

Hi there, I'll spare the details to the situation. Basically, there is a girl I've been talking to on facebook (she's the daughter of a friend...

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August 19, 2014

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Title	Shit test are becoming out of hand
Author	uppermostless
Upvotes	3
Comments	31
Date	August 19, 2014 9:30 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/2e0t3i/shit_test_are_becoming_out_of_hand/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/shit-test-are-becoming-out-of-hand.141498 https://theredarchive.com/post/141498

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[–]5BluepillProfessor3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago* (6 children) | Copy Link

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[–]uppermostless[S] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Quite simple really - I think it is - women, the fucked up creature that they are, feeds off emotions and feeds off validations. It is the biggest blow to their ego to not be validated by someone and they go bat shit insane licking the floor for you to forgive them when you don't put up with their shit.

Here's a quick example that happened to me : A Lucifer's daughter (at the time didn't know she was one) introduced to me her friend that we'll call Sarah at a shisha lounge. I reached to the place, talk with em for a few hours, lifted em back to Sarah's car (bitches in my city can't drive downtown, so they park at the terminal of the subway and take the subway to downtown) and I told Sarah I'd like to see her again so I asked for her number. I set up date 4 days later on a wednesday. The dog died due to reasonable logistics issue, so I let that slide considering she replied with a reschedule for 2 days later i.e Friday 9PM (she finishes work at 9PM and her workplace is 5 minutes walk from the shisha lounge).

Around 9PM, she texts me that she got hold up at work and that she has to stay later. I replied telling her "Ok, that's fine, I'm still gonna head there since I have friends that go there every night, lemme know when you're out". Forgot to mention, she also invited one of her friend. So there was 2 of my friends, sarah's friend and myself over there chilling having good time.

2 hours later, her friend tells me she found out she went home since she just posted a pic on instagram at her home. I was pissed obviously. So I texted her "what's up". She replied "nothing at home right now". I told her that what she did was a painful slowroll and that I wouldn't put up with her shit considering the amount of disrespect her showed me.

Then, as you still don't understand, she starts licking the floor sending me walls and walls and walls and wait... more walls of text message on how she had no choice, she's sorry and blablabla. I simply told her "I don't give a shit, you were in your dad's car for 30 minutes and didn't even think to hit me up, I don't plan on seeing you or talking to you furthermore". As always, she proceeded to send wall of texts that I didn't reply to.

PS : How Have I shown you the way

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Of course it is a shock. I think the first post I read about TRP was back in last year's November and was titled "Russian girls are all whores" by Law Dogger on Returnofkings.com . I continued reading other articles out of curiosity, but I couldn't quite swallow it, was too much for me the first time and I thought it was a bunch of guiltless manipulating assholes.

Months went by and realised that all the acquaintances I made that ended up in sex was me behaving textbook TRP without realising it and the others was me having no backbones and no balls fearing that I would get rejected.

After such an epiphany, I went back on returnofkings and then discovered this subreddit. I've been reading it for a little over a month now. I apply the best that I can all the information I took in, but what is confusing me is that I haven't found quite the personality to run.

To say a few words about me, I'm a 6'1 20 year old (going on 21 in november) 200+ pound french canadian/tunisian (although currently 180 pound because of elbow and knee injuries that prevents me to do any kind of physical activity pain free) that likes Cinema, Music and Sports (football and basketball and even some baseball).

In terms of my attitude, I have issues being constant I would say. I'm social in the sense that I can engage easily in conversations with anyone, but I'm introverted in the sense that I enjoy and need time alone whether it is to read, to fap, to watch TV shows / movie, to keep up with sports news or to sometimes play Video Games (haven't played any in the last 2 weeks). What kills me the most though - I think at least - is how cold blooded I am since finally swallowing the pill. I can be funny or flirty, but I rarely ever let my blood go hot to something. I'm always in a state of zen whether is it people yelling at me in real life or it is people on reddit telling me I'm fucking up with this current interaction.

I'll go on a limb and say that you seem someone that has been part of the community for a while. With that said, what the fuck should I do because I'm still lost on what behavior should I apply that matches my personnality best

[–]LS_D0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I'm social in the sense that I can engage easily in conversations with anyone, but I'm introverted in the sense that I enjoy and need time alone whether it is to read, to fap, to watch TV shows / movie, to keep up with sports news or to sometimes play Video Games

that's fine bro, we all need our space!

What kills me the most though - I think at least - is how cold blooded I am since finally swallowing the pill. I can be funny or flirty, but I rarely ever let my blood go hot to something.

Just chill matey, you're still quite young, don't worry about it as you're still very knew to RP ideology, which is a hard pill too swallow for many, coz " truth hurts, when you realize you've been living a lie!

By young I mean in years, not ideas. abilities, in fact it's the perfect time to learn about women and RP ideology,, so just keep reading the sidebar material and the forums, and you'll "find" your old mojo will come back, once you become happy with you

Importantly, don't be too hard on yourself or expect too much too soon ... just cruise and learn, HAVE FUN, it will restore you ... get back with the guys who you KNOW, and can fully relax with .. forget women for a few days here and there and concentrate on making yourself happier ... Remember "girls just wanna have fun", with "fun guys" .... hint!

Remember, "the two things you can give away, yet never lose, are 'what you know and how you feel'

Happy, self confident people "light up the room/are the life of the party" becoz they are giving off "happy, confident vibes" .... and everyone wants some of that!

Misery loves company and nobody wants any of that!

stay cool bro, you're doing fine, and much better than many! I'd bet in 18 months you'll remember this period of your life and laugh!

[–]uppermostless[S] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Well, here's the thing when it comes to friendships after TRP. I pretty much cut ties with half of my social circle which were long time friendships relatively to me (I don't keep up friends very long either because I'm not on par with the average mortal or the inverse really depends on how you look at it. I tend to enjoy discussions far more with grown adults) after realising how they had such a white knight behaviour aswell as being shitty friends period.

My current social circle consists of between 6-10 individuals and only a few that I actually spend a lot of time with, so I'll continue doing as previously what I was doing which is have fun and spend time with the people I know are relaxing and enjoyable.

Also, I've considered going into a Monk Mode for an undetermined period of time when semester starts. I considered going back to play piano which I was doing great at my earlier ages, start reading books that has TRP material, spend WAY more time being serious about my studying, go back to the gym, restart casual basketball and even start boxing whenever my joints enables me to so, approach at least a woman/day when going out to school and, if I have time for it, start learning Russian. Am I overwhelming myself which so much shit? Is there some stuff that isn't productive to go in monk mode?

I'd appreciate if you could give me pointers when it comes to going into a state of habit that requires a very big and serious commitment.

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