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[–]IANAPUA_Yet 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
She dodged your phone number request, so pretty sure she's not interested. If you want to give it another shot, you can ask her out. Of she dodged that too, you definitely need to forget her and move on.
[–]Bojanglo1990 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
People who are interested aren't that complicated and weird most of the time. Even if she is interested, this seems to be causing you some tension and possibly some anxiety. Is she what you want?
[–]runningblu31 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
There is no anxiety, its just the tension of the games lol Just needed to know what i should do next
[–]themadmacbook 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
listen carefully my friend. you have have two options. One is to keep trying to initiate snaps and getting ignored until blocks you, or you can update your story with all the awesome stuff you're doing until she realises youre fun af, and decides to initiate herself.
Now, if you dont have that awesome of a life to add to your story, your best bet is to snap her *Something that is not taking value *IE asking her about something, or anything that demands a reply. Start just snapping her stupid shit you see in your daily life, or you doing your own thing. Anything that doesnt show neediness, totally outcome dependent of her attitude towards what you're snapping her, is your best bet. Its either that or letting it die out, and failing regardless.
Plus, if you stop snapping her, youre admitting defeat and would have to confront her about it if you were to speak to her next time you have class. If you just pretend like its no big deal, then you can also do the same irl, and carry on like you normally would.
I'm only speaking from experience, your best bet is to carry on with your life like her ignoring you doesnt affect you what so ever. She will notice and realise that you're someone she can spend time with without you getting all clingy and shit
[–]sharp_as_stars 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
This is quite simple - you gave the wrong vibe in the begining so she just treats you as a 'like provider'. Seriously, why would she bookmark her snapchat on your phone? If she wanted to stay in touch with you she would just give you her number. What I would do is this: ignore her on snapchat. Do not text her. Nothing. This is not admitting to defeat. This is standing your ground and showing her you value yourself. Observe. Once you meet and she asks why you ingore her or not text her just reply that you are busy with your life [whatever it might be]. If she persues i.e. starts asking questions specifically about you, places her in your orbit all the time, checks you out while you are not watching, just tell her something like 'I get a sense you are hiting on me.' Remember: if she refuses to go out with you TWICE do not ask her again and wait for her to come up with getting together.
[–]runningblu3 9 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
TBH, she gives me the signals like laughing at my stupid jokes, maintaining the conversation, ask for help on homework, eye contact, etc. She would look over my phone to see who I am snapatting and texting. But then she gives a completely different vibe on snapchat/fb.
[–]sharp_as_stars 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
She either treats you like a genuine friend and does not consider you a possible romantic partner OR she is seeing someone and she sticks close to you to keep you as a backup.
I would keep my contact with her to minimum and wait for her to me ONLY when she is ready to go out. She's young so she has no idea what she actually wants which is a confident guy.
Experiment: avoid her on purpose and see if she comes up with 'Let's hang out sometime'. If she does - you have a shot. If not - you never did, move on. :-)
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