Guys who are always chatting girls, who is it and what are you saying?

I have a lot of friends that game that always seem to be chatting girls with their phones. Who are they chatting, what are they saying? The general consensus here is that text game should be used almost solely to set up a date.

I'm bothered by the fact that the only game I do is on nights out which happens once every one or two weeks. I'd like to extend my game and try to get better every day instead of limiting myself to nights out.