Guys who moved to a big city after college, how was the experience like?

Clyde_Frag · 2016-12-06T19:02:12+00:00

It's really what you make of it. I don't think it's necessarily harder to get laid after college, but you definitely have to put more effort into meeting girls if you want to have success.

The reason for this is that you won't just meet eligible girls as a part of your daily routine anymore (which was the case with things like frat parties and classes), which I think is the hardest adjustment that some guys have to make. In addition, social circle game isn't really that important anymore besides your friend's GF setting you up with her friend.

Outside of seduction, life is again pretty much what you make of it. I would recommend committing early on to working out consistently, since this is usually the point where most people begin to let themselves go. If you are looking for platonic friends, the best way to do that is to join a rec league for a sport you like.

matthewgola · 2016-12-06T19:04:00+00:00

This question comes down to personal experience alone. For me, a city is everything I could ever want. It means constant connectivity and an undying nightlife. For me, city dwelling is a means to my own personal happiness.

For you, it sounds to me that you are skeptical whether or not you want to take advantage of the connectivity. If an internet connection is enough connectivity for you, the suburbs are the obvious economical option

Overnight_Delivery · 2016-12-06T20:16:10+00:00

Big city like Philly or like Houston? Urban style cities are like the college experience for the real world. The suburbs / suburban style cities are isolation, slow death and over weight women.

Title	Guys who moved to a big city after college, how was the experience like?
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Date	December 6, 2016 5:52 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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