nerdy guy who cant seem to get out with friends or hook up with girls

Kitt_55 · 2016-12-12T09:16:02+00:00

Recommended Book: Fundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight

IWriteForGroupies · 2016-12-12T10:10:58+00:00

Being a nerd is about embracing it and using it to your advantage. I am a huge nerd. What kind of thinker are you?

Blue_Falcon_Killer · 2016-12-12T11:31:30+00:00

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Blue_Falcon_Killer · 2016-12-12T14:33:50+00:00

Like Revente said confidence goes a long way but there is different game for different woman. I have learned personally Humor works 80% of the time. I read comics play video games and read fantasy novels. I have a nerdy side but know how to make it seem fun to a woman and that what helps. Check out Speed Suction and NLP.

2016-12-12T16:23:29+00:00

One thing I can say is at least you are taking responsibility, don't think of this as 'blame'. You are responsible for your own actions and you shouldn't really care about the outcome, as you will act on the fact when it comes.

First off, do you like being a 'nerd' if you do embrace what it encompasses. If it's awesome to you that's what matters, not what I or anybody else thinks (btw it is awesome, I am a comic book, video game, movie nerd). You kind of want to avoid swatting at the leaves of the tree and start tapping at the roots, change your character and your personality will follow suit.

Action you could take: Exercise

Haircut and wear fitting clothes that suit you

approach (even if you have to start asking for the time)

Read (game specific: Manson's Models. for everything else: Tolle's Power of Now/New Earth, Dale carnegie How to win Friends and influence people (take with a pinch of salt), 7 habits of highly effective people by Covey.

Do anything, ANYTHING that gets you from out of your head and into your body Take so much ACTION that your THINKING MIND shuts off, this can be working out, a hobby and or even meditation.

Most important factor is action, this isn't a thinking game, women responds to what feels good so logic won't win them over if you want to sleep with someone. make yourself feel good and that will make her feel good. There is so much I can and everybody else here can say. but you gotta try for yourself. Peace brother.

2016-12-12T17:23:29+00:00

Why.

Why do you want pussy?

Think about this until you find an answer that drives you.

Title	nerdy guy who cant seem to get out with friends or hook up with girls
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Date	December 12, 2016 8:51 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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