Meeting a girl for coffee. Any advice?

HaloLASO · 2016-12-18T09:43:31+00:00

Go do a fun activity around town, like a comedy improv show or a concert, instead of getting coffee.

Hjalmbere · 2016-12-18T10:57:14+00:00

I concur with HaloLASO, having a coffee is low energy and is less likely to generate a positive vibe. Concert might be good if you're into the same type of music and logistics are in place-->alcohol + music + rubbing up to her in the crowd should lead to making out. If logistics and time constraints restrict your opportunities for a SNL, ask her to help you select a tie or a belt, women love shopping and that creates a positive vibe. Good luck!

TheBetterManZA · 2016-12-18T12:12:20+00:00

Ok dude. Here's some help.

1) Do not overthink things, and try to just be in the present moment with her. Also, if she's said yes at this point, assume that she has some interest in you.

2) Just talk to her like you would a friend and try to connect with her on a personal/emotional level. I have no idea how comfortable you are with your sexuality so maybe just play it safe when it comes to sexual conversation topics for now.

3) When it comes to touching people, if you've never done it before and you try to touch a girl she will pick up on your nervousness. Seriously, just tell her completely openly and honestly that, if the mood feels right, you'd like to hold her hand and put yours out. If she feels like it, she'll hold your hand back (yes, I have done this before because I don't have as much experience with dating as I would like). And yes, this is not a ballsy/brave move but I don't think you need to be doing that at this point. This will also express interest in a physical way, even if you didn't bring up sexual topics in conversation.

4) Try to end the date on a high note (don't let the energy die and drag the date out, I've made this mistake before)

5) Text her after the date if you feel like it. One text just to say you had a good time. This is not a requirement, and not everyone does it. If you think it went well, wait a couple of days and then ask her out again.

6) Do not spend too much time chatting on the phone. The phone is for making plans and meeting up. If a girl randomly texts you, do follow up with a reply, but don't draw it out into overly long conversations.

Title	Meeting a girl for coffee. Any advice?
Author	notmyrealacc22
Upvotes	2
Comments	3
Date	December 18, 2016 8:47 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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