Any tips how to not approach a girl in a creepy way?

2017-01-11T22:48:13+00:00

I have plenty of tips on how to approach women in creepy ways! That's not what you asked though.

If you FEEL like you're giving off a creepy vibe, you probably are so you need to change your mindset. You shouldn't want to make people feel comfortable with you. Your goal should be to feel comfortable with yourself and with that people will feel comfortable around you. Keep approaching! Don't sneak up on them from behind, don't surprise them, speak with authority, not too loud and definitely not to quiet. You want to get to know them and see if they're worth your time. Do you have female friends you can ask about it?

Don't go in with any expectations or intentions other than simply getting to know them. I met two women at yoga last night without any intention other than knowing their name, "Hi, I'm Jimmy..." Most of the time it's as easy as just saying "Hi!" with a smile.

Jacob_961 · 2017-01-12T09:29:22+00:00

Do the approach because you want to approach, not because you want the girl to like you. If you go look at a Ferrari, you go because you find the car beautiful, not to impress the car. Do the approach for you because you are interested, not to impress the girl. It will be way more chill and it is the uncertainty of "what does this guy want?" that puts off women, if she knows what you want, you make it easy for her to respond.

funnyfaceguy · 2017-01-11T22:31:18+00:00

Put yourself in there shoes. Be polite, be friendly, have fun with it, practice. If after all that they still don't want to talk than that's their dilemma not yours.

GMagician · 2017-01-11T23:40:07+00:00

I had this problem, what helped me is just thinking of how all the 'non creepy' guys would approach them, if I were a girl how I'd like to be approached, and I just start thinking 'I'm not creepy'; 'this isn't awkward' I feel like the biggest takeaway would be your mindset. If u think ur creepy ur gonna be creepy, if u think ur gonna LOOK creepy, u WILL look creepy, the conversation will be awkward if u think it will, so have the mindset that ur not creepy, the situation isn't awkward, and that your a great guy and people enjoy ur company!

Plistra · 2017-01-12T04:23:08+00:00

Talk to them in a way that makes it seem like you want to get in their life, not in their pants. Don't be nervous, don't over think it. Don't force it either. If you're uncomfortable, she probably is too. Aim at being their friend first. Then move on from there.

LeegOfDota · 2017-01-11T22:15:55+00:00

Same problem, to be honest :_(

ArtOfPhranger · 2017-01-12T14:37:52+00:00

You are not a stock portfolio, your value as a person does not go down just because someone does not like you.

If your mind set is such that you think your are being creepy, then you are being creepy. Change your mindset, although that is a whole other study.

Have fun, getting laid is a by product.

i_get_fat_shamed · 2017-01-12T08:49:29+00:00

Be attractive
Don't be unattractive

Title	Any tips how to not approach a girl in a creepy way?
Author	Ptolemy222
Upvotes	9
Comments	8
Date	January 11, 2017 10:00 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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