I am a[21M] shy virgin and a girl(who likes me) invited me to watch a movie at her house. How do I escalate?

Boo-urns93 · 2017-01-24T23:18:34+00:00

Sit nice and close to her when you put the movie on. Then after a 5 minutes or so look at her so she notices that you're looking. Then when she looks at you, hold the gaze for a long few seconds. Then go in for the kiss.

fanthor · 2017-01-24T23:12:14+00:00

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ammarm7 · 2017-01-25T03:11:13+00:00

What happened!!!??

ViciousKnids · 2017-01-25T06:34:33+00:00

First off, don't expect or put pressure on yourself to have sex

That being said.

Sit close. Doesn't matter what kind of movie it is. Just get comfortable. If she's cuddling up on you right away, great. If not, initiate a bit of it. Whisper something like 'come here' or just put your arm around her shoulder or tuck it behind the small of her back.

She likes you, so you're in good shape to begin with. Just initiate things slowly. After she's in close with you, give her a little peck of a kiss on the temple or shoulder or neck. If she doesn't turn to look at you, retreat back to cuddling (though if she likes you, I doubt she won't). If she does turn to you and makes eye contact, kiss her.

Don't try to make out right away or anything. One kiss. Turn back to the movie (unless it feels right and she leads into it) If she doesn't initiate anything, go to kiss her again. If she still doesn't, sit back and enjoy the movie.

If she does respond with a more intimate response, be a little handsy. I don't just mean up and grab her tits. Be subtle and teasing. Arm behind the small of her back? Put your hand on her thight. Slowly move up to her belt or the waistline of her pants and just hook your thumb under it. Arm over the shoulder? Slide your hand down and tuck it under her arm so your fingers are ever so slightly brushing her breast.

Hopefully you get the idea. Inch closer and closer and something will happen. But if she's not into it or not ready, don't force it. Just enjoy Titanic or The Notebook or whatever you guys are watching.

jcabia · 2017-01-25T01:24:29+00:00

The kino escalation ladder is very helpful. Update when you come back

atheism_101 · 2017-01-25T04:55:09+00:00

Keep us updated!

MOPuppets · 2017-01-25T06:33:02+00:00

Field Report!

saffer001 · 2017-01-25T15:10:07+00:00

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Title	I am a[21M] shy virgin and a girl(who likes me) invited me to watch a movie at her house. How do I escalate?
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Date	January 24, 2017 11:09 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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