Kind of 2 quetsions in one.

Firstly, i'm curious about a certain girls 'blueprint' and how one would approach her.

I was at a club on Saturday and there was this smoking hot girl who had a serious kind of look on her face the whole time. She wasn't one of the girls dancing around, laughing and stuff that you often see. She was a 9 or a 10

Guys were groping her and all over her. USUALLY when this happens, I see girls get really aggressive with the guys and berate them, but she was more or less letting all of these random guys feel her up, occasionally lightly moving their hand. They just kept coming back at her again and again.

I tried to open her at one point whilst I was dancing near her, and basically said 'hi!' and smiled. I put my hand out for her to take it, and she just looked at me and then ignored me, lol.

I remember thinking that nobody was gonna be able to pull her, but later on, some good looking fella seemed to be doing OK with her. I unfortunately missed him 'open' her. Would have been interesting. At the time I saw him, he was being very persistant and 'handsy' and feeling her up and trying to kiss her, bit in a kind of playful way, I guess. She would let him kiss her for a second and then would pull away. I don't know if he got to bang her or not that night.

From what i've described, how do you 'open'/approach this sort of girl on the dancefloor?


For my second question, i'm more interested about general dancefloor approaches, opens.

Are they supposed to be completely non-verbal? I mean, does that mean that if you are not hot, you don't have a chance?

I also think it can be a little bit awkward if there's no talking at all.

Sometimes I see guys say the odd one liner to the girl he's dancing with, and the girl laughs, BUT I never know what the guys say? All I can ever think of is to say something about her dance moves or maybe ask her some lame question about herself, but that's just chode and hasn't worked for me in the past. What sort of little one-liners are good for emotional spikes or to make her laugh or something as yuo are opening and dancing with a girl on the dancefloor?? It's kind of loud so you don't have full-on conversation, but I see people break up the non-verbal communication with little short convos, and the girl laughs, and I never know what they are saying