Friendly guy who doesn’t get laid

niggsponge · 2017-03-06T01:18:12+00:00

Just wait for college. It seems as though you have good conversation skills. You'll do fine.

GirlEater420 · 2017-03-06T20:29:48+00:00

You seem very talented for this. I'd go as far to say that there is probably just one place where your lacking that is causing problems in your game altogether.

My non professional advice is this: try taking more risk with girls. If your getting into a lot of interactions with women, and those interactions are filled with positive emotions and are overall "not bad interactions", then the next step is to start escalation.

You will then begin to notice yourself getting rejected by girls. It is important that you actually get rejected. This is because, just like with approaching, rejection reveals to girls factors that actually help you get laid. Factors such as entitlement (you know that thing that feminist say is bad for men to have). As well as portraying a deeper understanding that if she accepts you sexually, you will give her more of those fun and good interactions that she is currently enjoying.

Escalation is the non-verbal presentation of a deal. The deal is that if she commits to you sexually you will commit to her socially (the extent of which will be confirmed by her later, most girl just have sex first then pressure for social commitment). She can decline the deal, but that does not mean you can't present it non verbally again after showing her your social value (which it seems you have).

Cantloginhere · 2017-03-06T21:29:48+00:00

Sounds like you talk to girls the same way you talk to guys. Friendzoning yourself.

Try to be more confrontational with women to spark some attraction. With guys it comes off as being an asshole but women see it as confidence. That's why so many date assholes.

You only need keep it up for the first few dates.

santereality · 2017-03-06T08:34:17+00:00

You should like.. be taller

Title	Friendly guy who doesn’t get laid
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Upvotes	8
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Date	March 6, 2017 12:30 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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