I'm a twenty year old dude in college and over the past few months I've hooked up with two girls. Both chicks (one who i probably will never see again and the other I live by) independently told me, before I even hooked up with them that I was "the type of guy they wanna marry." I feel like this is a good thing in that they like my personality but I'm also realizing this plays as a disadvantage in college because a lot of girls don't wanna be tied down this early in life. If I'm trying to hookup with more girls, should I try more outwardly to project myself as an asshole?