I always read that being high energy is better when talking to women but I'm starting to think that being more low key might be my style. Does anyone have tips for this? I think I try too hard to be high energy and it just doesn't work in my favor on dates. Like when I got my last number at a bar, I was told that I was acting more calm and relaxed than trying to be all "wild and crazy" with my energy and it got me thinking.

The date from that number led to nothing so I may have been trying to be too much of a joker or too high energy which came off a bit weird. Just want to try being more calm and reserved now, while also not caring. Is that possible to do? Like being all calm but still having an aura of "I can have fun"?