I'm new to TRP and have been trying to ingest as much information as possible over the past few weeks. The biggest issue I am running into is how to apply much of this advice into a LTR/Marriage. I have read the occassional 'marriage dread game' post, but nothing that goes into the detail of the other posts talking just about 'plates' or women on the side. So I just wanted to get that out of the way as a frame of reference.

My question is about introducing a new woman into our sexual escapades. But let me give you a little back-story to try and explain.

I've been married for almost three years now. I'm happy with her. Love her. All of that good stuff. Still having regular (4-5 times a week) sex and it's always great. Recently though, I'm finding myself more and more consumed with fucking other women.

This is not without merit though. From as long as I can remember, my wife loves to fantasize about me fucking other women. She loves it when I tell her about this hot girl at work and what I want to do to her. She wants me to call her the name of the co-worker while I fuck her. She's had friends come over for girls night and then asks me who I thought was the hottest. For a long time, this was all just fantasy. But it has often been pushed into, "Hey let's actually talk about this" territory.

I remember an event in particular, in which she said she would be comfortable with me at least putting some feelers out. I found a girl on OKCupid and was getting nudes within 30 minutes. She freaked out a little bit. (Not sure if she didn't believe I had it in me or if she didn't realize how quick the girl would give it up.) But either way, I wasn't going to push the issue as I felt I had already come so far.

When she tried to start up with the fantasy and roleplay again, I shut her down and told her that it's only going to make me want it more, so if she wasn't ready to do it for real, then I wasn't game.

That was probably 3 months ago. But over the past few weeks she has begun to re-introduce the dirty talk and fantasies to our sexy time, and I would appreciate any advice as to how I can make this a reality. She has told me about her desires to please me and how she wants other women to be able to experience being with me. TRP, how can I pass this last hurdle?

TL;DR - How can I use TRP strategies to get my wife to take her ffm threesome fantasies to the next level?