How soon after a breakup can you ask a girl out?

spenrose22 · 2017-03-27T18:11:36+00:00

It'll vary from girl to girl, but I wouldn't wait to show your interest. Every time I've done that, thinking she will "need time" and wanting to respectfully give her space, she ended up dating another guy almost immediately.

Woujo · 2017-03-27T18:57:07+00:00

Girls who just got out of break-ups aren't usually trying to immediately "date" again. I would just ask her to hang out, and not style it as a date.

THEREALKEVINSANE · 2017-03-28T02:35:19+00:00

you don't even have to break up to ask a girl out dumb question.

UoAPUA · 2017-03-29T04:41:20+00:00

Right now is the critical rebound zone. Girls want a pair of strong arms and some good sex more than they want "some time." Some time is an excuse they tell to guys they're turning down. Unless the breakup was traumatic (like he cheated on her or dumped her out of the blue) then she was over him and looking for her next thing before she broke it off. Even if he dumped her, she's not gonna sit back and let him win the breakup. This all maybe sounds immature, but we're all human. There will be a rebound. That rebound may be temporary, or he may be the best thing that's ever happened to her. But what's important is, if he's not you, he'll be someone else. Go chase what you want.

letsgetrandy · 2017-03-27T18:17:20+00:00

Just ask if she'd like to grab drinks.

That's a low-risk, low-investment activity with all the potential necessary for something to develop.

shubhidoobi · 2017-03-27T21:27:24+00:00

Go to r/askseddit to ask any questions.

kkohl98 · 2017-03-27T21:54:41+00:00

That very same day, why wait, make her jealous today....I sound like a corny commercial

Mattsamillion91 · 2017-03-28T00:15:54+00:00

If youve taken the time to reflect then you may have realised you checked out months ago There is no "too soon" Or "too late" if it feels right do it , live in the moment, embrace and act.

ThrowawayPUA · 2017-03-27T19:53:47+00:00

You should wait 4/3 Pi r³ days, where r=the number of days the woman was in the previous relationship.

Title	How soon after a breakup can you ask a girl out?
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Date	March 27, 2017 6:08 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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